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A Special Mother’s Day Hug

To all of the women out there (and the people who love them) who have delt with pregnancy loss or the loss of a child. Mother’s Day is bittersweet for people who have experienced loss. While we are so grateful for the love in our lives that we have, this day is often also a reminder of what we have lost. So for those folks out there experiencing the mixed emotions of this day, I send you a hug. In the words of poet Max Ehrmann, to day is a reminder to “Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.” Especially if those plans didn’t work out.

At first I was intrigued by this edition if Time, but now I just feel manipulated. And yeah, it is timely, but it is so mean-spirited to publish something that divisive about moms just before Mother’s Day. No, I will not purchase this edition of Time (not that I ever really read Time anyways.) Instead, I’ll be spending time with my family, and being exactly mom enough for my son.

amotherisborn:

Sometimes I picture online publishers sitting around a room looking worriedly at a bunch of charts with lines heading down down down — waning readership on their sites! Dismal traffic! Not enough clicks!

Then one of them grins and says, “You know what we need to do.” And they all smirk and don’t…

Dear Media,

Please stop using the faux-word “Mompraneur.” Just because a female entrepreneur is a mother, and is inspired by her family life to establish a business doesn’t mean she needs “mom” added to her descriptor. When a father starts a business no one calls him a “dadpraneur.” He’s just an unremarkable “entrepreneur.” The term mompraneur is just sexist and condescending—as if her idea is less valuable, or even “cute” because she’s a mom. Mothers who start business are doing something no different from other business developers: identifying a need for a product or service and filling that need. They aren’t mompraneurs. They are just entrepreneurs. Show some respect and don’t dumb-down their descriptor.  I’ll step off my soap-box now.

Thank you,

FullyD

I have nothing now but praise for my life. I’m not unhappy. I cry a lot because I miss people. They die and I can’t stop them. They leave me and I love them more. … What I dread is the isolation. … There are so many beautiful things in the world which I will have to leave when I die, but I’m ready, I’m ready, I’m ready.

Maurice Sendak on Fresh Air (via Gawker)

Beautiful tribute to Adam Yauch. Watched this first thing this morning, and started my day in tears. A beautiful, gentle, yet powerful reminder of how ever-present the Beastie Boys were in my teen years. Much love out there to all the folks out there fighting cancer, loving ones who are, and everyone who cares for ‘em.